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Asking this question is like asking “What’s the best ice cream flavor?” or “What is the funniest movie of all time?” – One person will tell you it’s Ben & Jerry’s Half Baked coupled with a viewing of Anchorman. You may be more of a Rocky Road kind of gal and Steve Carell in The 40-Year-Old-Virgin may really do it for you. My point? The “best” of anything will vary from person to person, sex positions included.
What you should ask is ….What positions do I like best? What position or act helps me have an orgasm more than any other? What type of sex do I get most excited about? Etc., etc.
Everyone’s body is different—bones, movement, size, hips, flexibility, etc—you should try out positions to see what works best for you. Consider the following:
- Positions that allow penetration.
- Positions that easily allow the clitoris to be stimulated
- Positions that allow the breasts to be touched and easily excited.
- Positions that intensify the feelings around the anus.
You can also check out some of these positions that stimulate the senses:
- Positions where you can see your lover and watch him/her.
- Positions where you can smell your lover.
Or maybe you enjoy positions where a lover is tied up and is under your control.
If you’re looking for specific examples of positions, along with cute diagrams, (Warning! Shameless Plug ahead!), check out two of our earlier posts—one of female orgasm and another on the Kama Sutra.
It’s all about you: your preferences, what turns you on, and what you’re comfortable with. So get out there, explore, and have fun!
Planned Parenthood of Northern New England’s Education Department carefully selects all weekly questions. All questions are actual inquiries made to PPNNE by college-aged students.
Do you have a question you would like to see included? Please email goddess@ppnne.org
