Our culture loves when things are black and white—heterosexual or homosexual; straight or gay; etc. But when it comes to sexual orientation and attraction, it’s not that simple.
The type of porn you like or watch doesn’t necessarily define whether you are gay, straight, gay or bi or somewhere in between. Lots of straight people enjoy gay porn, gay people enjoy straight porn and on and on. What arouses you in porn is not a quick litmus test about your sexual orientation.
Alfred Kinsey realized we have the potential to be erotically attracted to both women and men, or mostly men or mostly women, or only men or only women. Kinsey discovered that only 10% of people are truly 100% heterosexual or 100% homosexual, and that most people fall somewhere in between.
What you should pay attention to is whether you act on the feelings you’re having. You can’t control who you are sexually attracted to but you can control whether you act on those desires or not. And acting on your sexual desires is really dependent on your comfort level and the environment that you are living in.
If you find yourself drawn to lesbian porn and want to explore your sexuality a little deeper, try asking yourself these questions: Who do I usually have crushes on? Who do I find myself attracted to? Who do I fantasize about? Who do I see myself with in a relationship? If you have been attracted to another woman – have you acted on that or do you want to act on that? That’s something you need to figure out for yourself.
