Let’s get right down to business! The very first thing you should do is learn about female anatomy, if you aren’t already familiar. Knowing the “ins and outs” (er, so to speak) of a woman’s vulva is critical to giving mind-blowing oral. Don’t find yourself in this situation.
Secondly, and this is true of any sex act, ask her what feels good (and ask a couple of times during the experience). Knowing what she likes and wants will increase her erotic edge and will heighten her sensations and mood.
Most importantly, go slow and take your time. On average, it takes a woman 20 minutes to orgasm (and men only 2-5 minutes!)—slow and steady is definitely the pace you want in this race.
When you start licking, don’t just focus on her clitoris, but cover the entire area around that pleasure switch. Use your tongue to gently lick her labia and inner lips. Move all around, including moving your tongue into her vagina. Remember that your tongue is a very strong muscle, but one that can be soft or hard, and used in many different ways during oral. Licking, rolling, and flicking your tongue all over her vulva can make any woman a happy girl!
Try putting her clitoris in your mouth and sucking on it. You can also use your fingers to increase her sensation by moving your fingers in and out of her vagina, using them to massage her labia and surrounding skin.
As you get deeper into the oral sex, keep going back to the clitoris and build on the motion and pressure. Watch her movements to tell she is enjoying it – pay attention to her moans and her body. Rhythm is the key.
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